Our Journey

This is a journal of our experiences from the first moments when we began to suspect that something may be wrong with our son or our parenting skills, through the diagnosis process, seeking and applying the recommended treatments, the diagnosis of our second son and life since the diagnoses. We hope that this may be helpful to others who are going through the same things that we have experienced.

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Ashton Stephen William Poole Born December 3, 1995 in Amman Jordan

The Beginnings

From the beginning Ashton has been unique. He was born in Amman, Jordan while we were living in Jerash, Jordan. He was a large baby, and Wendy had Gestational Diabetes. The doctor decided that he should induce rather than wait for labor to begin on its own. Three weeks prior to his due date, we took a crowded, public transportation bus to the capital city from our little village (about a 45-minute ride after an hour wait at the bus stop). Once in Amman we took a cab to the hospital.

Ashton went into fetal distress several times during the induction process. The doctor finally decided to do an emergency C-section. He was so jaundiced (yellowish skin) that Steve could not believe it was his son when the nurse first brought him. Somewhat confused, he almost said, "No, my child should be the American boy. The little white one."

The pediatrician insisted that Ashton's APGAR score was perfect, but we wonder how much of that was cultural (Arabs do not like to give you bad news). He did receive excellent medical care and was only sick once while we lived in Jordan.

 

Ashton has always been very outgoing with a wonderful personality that is unique

 

Ashton is a real "Ham" for the camera

Since Ashton was born in Jordan, we decided to keep his Jordanian name (his name, his father's name and his grandfather's name) when we applied for his "Birth Abroad" Certificate (similar to a birth certificate). Therefore, his full name is Ashton Stephen William Poole. Since the area of Jordan where he was born and we lived is a part of the original land given to the children of Israel by God, we also tell people that he was born in the Holy Land. [NEXT]

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